My Current Situation

I feel I should let everyone know that I do not currently have an SD. I am not on any sites, and I am not looking. I have no desire for an SD right now.

Instead, I have a boyfriend, who I've mentioned before (here and here). I have always put relationships before arrangements. Being an SB is not my future, so I have always put the real deal before the simulation.

I am very happy right now. I am financially comfortable, doing fairly well in school, have very little friend drama, and the boyfriend drama has been manageable. Overall, great!

Do I miss having the excitement of an SD? Sometimes. It certainly spices up life, running off between classes to meet him at a hotel, or lying to my roommate as to why I'm spending the night away.

At the same time I prefer having a simple life. I go to class, work, friends, and boyfriends. Nothing to lie about, nothing to hide. Sure, sitting on my couch all day watching Friends re-runs is boring, yet at the same time it's incredibly enjoyable.

Will I go back to the SD world someday? I'm not sure. I don't think I can answer that being where I am right now in my life. But I am open to the idea.