As my tag-line reads, my SDs have all been at a minimum twice my age. It has spoiled me a bit, and now even in my dating life I can't stand the boys my age. I go up at least five years before I even consider a guy.
I've become comfortable around older men. Perhaps even more comfortable than I am with younger men. I'm not talking about men my grandfather's age, or really even my father's age, but men in their 40s or so.
But now I have a new potential who falls outside of that range. A new potential who is intelligent, witty, attractive, and an all around nice guy.
He's 32.
And I honestly see that as a drawback. Strangely enough, I feel less comfortable than if he were 42 or 52. I know what those men want and expect (or I like to think I do!). With this potential, I feel off-balance.
He's young enough to fall into my dating pool, and I think that may be what is most off-putting for me. I want to like my SD, but I don't want to have to worry about it becoming more, emotionally for me.
What's a good SB to do? Be careful, like with everything else in this crazy world!
Terrain De Rugby Dimension
1 year ago
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Interesting. Actually the issue of potential emotional attachments can even happen between ladies in their twenties and men in their 40's:I had my personal experience on that one a couple of times. Someone is bound to get dissapointed in these cases
ReplyDeleteCheck your heart before he breaks it... its hard not to fall for someone who treats you well (as an SD should) but we must remember that this is just an arrangement...
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