Monday, December 14, 2009

Private Lives, Public Consequences?

I'm facing a dilemma.

Mr M is divorced. He has two other friends who have SBs, and as I said before he has had a couple of SBs of his own in the past couple of years.

I'm far more used to married SDs. In fact, with only one exception, every potential I've ever meet even just for a quick coffee has been married.

I realize now that this wasn't just a coincidence.

Married guys value their privacy. They have far more at risk than I do. Their family lives and even careers could be ruined by a run-in with someone they know while with their SB. This means that those sorts of arrangements, besides an occasional meal out, take place completely in private.

That is not Mr M's style.

He wants a girl to flaunt. He wants to go shopping and to the theatre. And while we're there he wants to make it clear to everyone that we are sexually involved.

That is not my style.

Let me be clear here, I am not ashamed, embarrassed, or otherwise mortified by being an SB. When I am alone with my thoughts I am not disturbed at all by being an SB, in fact I really enjoy looking back on my experiences so far.

I don't have a problem being with an SD in public, I have a problem with an SD groping me and saying inappropriate things to me in public. I guess I was only meant for married SDs!

So, Mr M and I will be having a little chat next weekend when I fly to visit him. We will not be going shopping at Victoria's Secret together. We will not be going to ballet. We will be staying at his beautiful condo so I can cook a wonderful dinner and cuddle on the couch to watch a movie. Unless he learns to keep his hands to himself in public, this is how it will be.

2 comments:

  1. I love married sds also! However my current sd is married and wants to flaunt. He is being respectable but it gets annoying telling him my reasons for not wanting too much pda lol. But I can handle his small romances in public thus far....

    xx
    College Sb

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  2. omg.. seriously, girls like u make me vomit!

    i dont know what kind of live u have lived, and the resons behind ur life as a SB, but seriously..

    ur a COLLEGE student, u will get a normal job one day and u dont need to get fucked by old men who PYA for it. Nomatter what u call it, UR a PROSTITUTE!

    SUre, nothing wrong with that if u have 4 children to feed, but comon..sell ur body to old men for "fun" and "enjoying" it..thats just weird.

    u have a father, a mother, sibling and one day u will have a husband and children..u cant honestly tell me that u wont be embarassed when ur children and husband find out mommy was a whore when she didnt even need to be.

    u live in america, u can get loans to pay off college, eat noodles and buy clotes at forever 21..thats NORMAL. when u graduate u can do whatever u want and buy everything..

    just think about it..i respect u and i haveno right to judge u, but im telling u..what ur doing is being a WHORE and not some kind of "cute little sugar baby girl".

    first class, 5 star hotels and visiting other countries is an AWSOME way ofliving, but it should not cost u ur honor and selfrespect!

    reading ur blog made me cry. u deserv SOOO much more than this. U r lucky enough to be beautiful, attractive, fun and smart. U dont need to sell urself for money.

    plz, dont be mad, this is just my opinion and i think u deserv much better.

    i live in dubai and i can spot a SB from a distance. its embarassing.

    take care of ur body, its ur best instrument.

    have faith in god

    thx for reading.

    ur a good girl

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